When grandfather died, we found my great uncles death penny, suddenly, it sparked my search to discover who he was, and what happened to him. He was never talked about as I could remember. Thank goodness for the british war graves people,who I asked to find him, they sent me a letter telling me where he was. My husband and I, visit Ypres quite regularly. And my great uncle wasn't buried too far from here, we have been to see him a few times, and lay flowers. The graveyard is small, still and quiet....not a bad place to lay.
judith garbutt